Being brave by being soft
“Be brave by being soft” Bonnie Bainbridge Cohen Soft doesn’t mean “weak”. We are conditioned to harden ourselves when entering a situation associated with discomfort… […]
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Self-validated sexuality
I am feeling particularly reflective today. So you get a little piece of my kitchen psychology 🙂 about our need for validation from others. Why […]
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The paradox of Ego and Learning
“If you want to eat like a dog, you can live and sleep outside like a dog. If you want to live and sleep like […]
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Own your limits
I feel that the cancel culture created in our society, our focus on the conflict, on who is guilty, is partially a result of us […]
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A shameful story
I’ve got long hair. I go to a hairdresser. He is a good one and always overbooked. He squeezes me into his schedule. Sometimes when […]
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Good Pain vs. Bad Pain
Three Questions strategy to navigate your rope experience and stay safe Pain naturally belongs to the experience of going out of your comfort zone. When […]
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Consent in Ropes
A short guide on how to negotiate consent in ropes and get what you really want Consent in ropes is a hot topic these days. […]
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The Learning Mindset
The Learning Mindset: your key to making real progress in rope bondage Did you ever wonder why some people make fast progress taking up a […]
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