My Rope Studies, Part Five
Coming back to that “passive” idea of bottoming, my rope journey just started when I shifted the focus from my partner to myself. And started […]
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My Rope Studies, Part Four
Another discovery I made in my rope journey was learning about my limits. And when I say that, this is not really about “what I […]
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My Rope Studies, Part Three
So I went on my rope journey, and I made some discoveries. And the first thing I discovered was my resistance. I have this general […]
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My Rope Studies, Part Two
In 2015 I started with professional Sexological Bodywork training. SexBod for people to learn about themselves and their sexuality and how to support them with […]
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My Rope Studies, Part One
About 12 years ago I was tied for the first time… It was a long journey from what it was for the first time to […]
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On “healing” in ropes
A while ago I gave an interview to someone who is writing a book about BDSM as a healing modality. I think it will be […]
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Breathe, my dear…
It will be short today. I have gone through a period of anxiety and I feel a bit drained. I wanted to take this opportunity […]
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Seeking liberation in restraint
My teacher Joseph Kramer found it humorous that I’m seeking liberation in restraint. Well, the rope – the restraint – is just a vehicle. The […]
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What is “Soma”
Thanks to Scot Kinbaku who said that since I keep referring to “soma” during our workshops, I should explain it, so here it comes 🙂 […]
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Nerve safety in rope bondage
Nerve safety is a difficult topic to write about because it is so subjective what people feel inside of themselves and also it is a […]
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