About surrender, trust and trust “repair”
Preparing for my talk on “Surrender in ropes” in KOR Berlin, I reached out on socials and asked for questions. Much to my surprise, I […]
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On fantasies and honesty
Last weekend we taught the “Mythos Showa” workshop in Kinbaku Lounge which was very transformative for us, leaving behind some inhibitions, daring to show ourselves […]
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My Rope Studies, Part Five
Coming back to that “passive” idea of bottoming, my rope journey just started when I shifted the focus from my partner to myself. And started […]
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My Rope Studies, Part Four
Another discovery I made in my rope journey was learning about my limits. And when I say that, this is not really about “what I […]
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My Rope Studies, Part Three
So I went on my rope journey, and I made some discoveries. And the first thing I discovered was my resistance. I have this general […]
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My Rope Studies, Part Two
In 2015 I started with professional Sexological Bodywork training. SexBod for people to learn about themselves and their sexuality and how to support them with […]
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My Rope Studies, Part One
About 12 years ago I was tied for the first time… It was a long journey from what it was for the first time to […]
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On resilience
Resilience is not a special skill, it is a part of our lives… An endless cycle of circumstances changing and us trying to find our […]
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Mental Impact in Seme-nawa
Whenever we talk about the impact in semenawa, we usually focus on the physical challenge, which of course is very present… But today I want […]
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On “healing” in ropes
A while ago I gave an interview to someone who is writing a book about BDSM as a healing modality. I think it will be […]
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