Tying as Inquiry vs. Imposition
This is something that I pondered about alredy for a while and finally was able to pin it after hearing Steve James talking about something […]
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Kinbaku Rituals: how to create a space where play and intimacy are welcomed?
I’m not into DS, and neither is my partner. Role-playing was never my thing. But Kinbaku space is not casual for me. It is sacred… […]
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Being seen: witnessing in Kinbaku
One of the very first experiences in life is that of being seen. Parents witness the newborn. What is the development of the self if […]
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You do not have to be good
It came as a shock when a friend of mine shared with me her insecurities, about how she feels “not good enough”. “Not good for […]
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How do we cope?
That was an interesting talk we had with Anna Noctuelle during EURIX that was supposed to become a workshop together, but we couldn’t get a […]
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Do you want to feel more?
I take weekly somatic classes with FlourishSomatics. This week in class Jess said something that stuck with me and I’ve been pondering about it ever […]
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Posture in ropes
Another question & answer to a fellow rope bottom i like to share with you here. You can send me your own questions on info@ropesomatics.com! […]
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Safety Part 3. Habits and strategies.
Safety is one of the aspects that we learn early in life and then over time we develop “strategies”: how do we establish safety in […]
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Safety Part 2. Our bodies remember.
Continue with my thoughts on safety. Safety in ropes, safety in life, safety strategies. Where does our safety behavior come from? Every situation has an […]
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