My blog page – Page 4 – Somatics for Rope Bottoms

Breathe, my dear…

It will be short today. I have gone through a period of anxiety and I feel a bit drained. I wanted to take this opportunity […]

My teacher Joseph Kramer found it humorous that I’m seeking liberation in restraint. Well, the rope – the restraint – is just a vehicle. The […]

Personally, I love to watch long term couples tie. They are the best players. It is as if they already have a “foundation”, a thick […]

This is something that I pondered about alredy for a while and finally was able to pin it after hearing Steve James talking about something […]

I’m not into DS, and neither is my partner. Role-playing was never my thing. But Kinbaku space is not casual for me. It is sacred… […]

One of the very first experiences in life is that of being seen. Parents witness the newborn. What is the development of the self if […]

There is so much I want to say about “too much”. We often do too much. We are a culture of too much. Too much […]

It came as a shock when a friend of mine shared with me her insecurities, about how she feels “not good enough”. “Not good for […]

That was an interesting talk we had with Anna Noctuelle during EURIX that was supposed to become a workshop together, but we couldn’t get a […]

Thanks to Scot Kinbaku who said that since I keep referring to “soma” during our workshops, I should explain it, so here it comes 🙂 […]