Difficult to let go…
Here is my answer to a question I received from someone on social media. I was asked about the difficulty of letting go (of control) […]
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The paradox of Ego and Learning
“If you want to eat like a dog, you can live and sleep outside like a dog. If you want to live and sleep like […]
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“How was it for you?”
Or how we give feedback? In our workshops, the first feedback round often goes to the rope bottoms (not the riggers). We normally ask: “How […]
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On intimacy…
…or what we really do when we do ropes? In our studio, a beginner couple is practicing. Tension exercise. One hour into the class, Alexander […]
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Good Pain vs. Bad Pain
Three Questions strategy to navigate your rope experience and stay safe Pain naturally belongs to the experience of going out of your comfort zone. When […]
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Boundaries and Limits
How to find and communicate your boundaries and limits during rope play When we hear “boundaries” or “limits,” perhaps we think of something negative like […]
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Consent in Ropes
A short guide on how to negotiate consent in ropes and get what you really want Consent in ropes is a hot topic these days. […]
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The Power of Surrender
Some thoughts on Seme-nawa from a bottoming perspective My partner and I devote ourselves to a very particular kind of rope bondage – the one […]
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Bottoming for Semenawa
Semenawa is in demand these days. Many people feel attracted to a darker, erotic, challenging, and most of all deeply emotional way of doing Kinbaku. […]
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